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Ogbeni(Mr), please go and dwell on the rooftop.

I often hear people blame a woman for not being submissive enough,  hence the reason why her husband beats and abuses her emotionally. In fact for the past few days,  with the recent happenings on domestic violence, the internet has been agog with fallacious conclusions that a woman’s lack of submission leads to her being abused by her husband,  liessssssssssssss from the pit of hell! Continue reading Ogbeni(Mr), please go and dwell on the rooftop.

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Should they have barred you from their home?

To my friends and blog visitors who are not Africans, this post might be a little weird so pardon me, I just need to address this issue to my target audience, Africans, most especially my country people,Nigerians.

It’s high time we begin to call out some of the little foxes that are spoiling the vine of marriages in Nigerian homes, and this post is the first of such, please expect more of this in the nearest future. Continue reading Should they have barred you from their home?

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You are hurting yourself If you are still compromising.

It  took me lots of lessons before I learnt that compromising my believes, values and morals  about some certain things in life in other to make other people comfortable would always back fire and spiral me into unending hurt and bitterness.

I am an empath and I get burdened with people’s  burden and just feel a natural knack to lift it off them.

I could do anything to make people feel better, and I expected everyone to be like this towards me. Continue reading You are hurting yourself If you are still compromising.

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Hello world!

I am Oluwatosin Olajumoke Arodudu (OOA for short). A daughter of the Most High God (He loves me so much), the wife to a wonderful man who I would describe concisely as the “keeper”. A mother to the most adorable, cute little boy who has graduated from being called the lil champ to the big champ.  A loved and a loving daughter and daughter in law, a wonderful sister and sister-in-law, an empathetic friend and acquaintance who feels your happiness and pains.

Writing has been my passion ever since I was a child, I have only tapped into a minimal aspect of it. Recently, I have had recurrent, nagging and disturbing musings to explore aspects of every day life through writing. Discussions cutting across topics of societal importance, and capable of mutual benefits to authors and readers alike. I have struggled for years on the right platform  to showcase my musings and thoughts in it’s raw form,  and opening a blog just didn’t cut it for me, I mean, I don’t flow well with the trend and I have passed off the idea for so long.albert-einstein-quotes-on-imagination

Like they say procrastination is the thief of time, so here I am on a new and fresh journey with musings and thoughts, we are going to have a great time together my friends and subscribers, this medium would tap into your  indescribable thoughts and feelings, and help you weave them into words which would leave us both  reeling from shock and excitement.

Do you have a speedy imagination? An imagination that rushes ahead of you, even before you can gather your thoughts?  Then join me on this platform, let us rub minds and grow together, blurb it here before it eludes you, that imagination, that thought can just be what you or someone else needs badly to make a head way in life.  People might have taunted you for your quick imagination and made you feel less of whom you are meant to be, please pay no more attention, start developing the raw gold God has deposited in you.

Welcome all, seat back, relax and let the musings and thoughts flow!

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